The other evening, Mzzzz E turned up at my house, wearing something that almost passed as a skirt but might better be described as thin strips of denim stapled together. I had invited her to be my date for a school fundraising “Film Night” but had mistakenly used words like “support the school community”, “all for a good cause” and “think of the children” when doing so. Mzzzzz E – as a proud representative of the “deliberately barren” – had reacted accordingly by dressing in a manner that she saw as “recession punk-chic” but which I could only see resulting in some kid saying to Mr Justice in the playground: “My dad said your mum brought a hooker to the fundraiser”. And, moreover, when we arrived at the function, she got this hell-raisin’ glint in her eye that she always gets whenever she’s A) at a function with an open bar and/or B) awake.
Turns out she was the least of my worries.
The real problem was that my Financial Advisor AND my Mortgage Broker were both at the event, which also happened to be the first time I’d attended an evening fundraiser as a parent. And the whole heady combination made me want to run away from my Stupid Grown-up Life by drinking a lot. Like, a lot a lot. Luckily, Mzzzz E and some of the more notorious members of my mothers’ group were there as willing helpers. Or unluckily, depending on which way you look at it.
Next thing I know, Mzzzz E’s got everyone playing her usual game where you have to choose someone in the room you would, er, you know, “do it” with (see “Fi-Die-Lity“). And we’re all standing only metres from Brett The Principal and I’m thinking “This could so easily go terribly, terribly wrong” when The Mild-Mannered Lawyer took a bullet for me. She announced not one but TWO people she would choose for hypothetical rogering and everyone was so taken aback that they forgot to press me or anybody else for their answer. Phew. But then I had to go and blow my ride by going up to the maker of the film we were about to see and suggesting that she post some nude photos of herself on the internet to generate a bit more buzz around the film. Which, I hasten to add, made much more sense in the context of our conversation, but still….
But, arguably, the highlight of my evening was finding myself standing around with my Financial Advisor, his Underling and his Secretary. The four of us had one of those “This is Your Life” reunion moments, where we got to be together again for the first time since that day the secretary had brought coffees for all of us into a meeting room. I was really quite emotional about it and may or may not have even exclaimed something like “Well, what do you know? The old gang’s back together!”
However, the moment was somewhat undermined by the fact that the Underling appeared to be laughing at me.
“You’re laughing at me!” I accused him.
“No, no. I’m not laughing with you,” he said.
And then it dawned on me, in that way that things dawn on you when you’ve drunk too much champagne. “Ah, you’re happy!” I said, knowingly. “You’re just so very very happy!”.
But actually, now that I think about it, he was laughing at me. But really, I should have been the one who was laughing at him because he has to wear a suit every day while I just get to wear whatever I want. And he has to go to the city every day while I just get to stay at home. And he is going to be a fully-certified Financial Advisor one day and charge $700 an hour and… yes, he had good reason to laugh at me. I see it now.
Just as I see now that it wasn’t a good idea to drink quite so much. I woke the next morning, hungover like a proverbial, and after using all my remaining resources to deliver Mr Justice to school on time, I decided the only course of action was this: put the two younger kids in front of ABC Kids for the morning and then walk to the local shops to buy hot chips for lunch. Which was one of those things I felt totally at peace with until I said it out loud on the phone to my husband and heard how it actually sounded.
And I realised that I had become one of those parents who get drunk at school functions with hookers, play inappropriate parlour games, make pornographic suggestions to film makers, estrange their Financial Advisory Team with drunken banter and then shamelessly employ MEP methods on their children the following day. And I promptly switched off that TV and let my kids have a bath at 10:30am instead. And I didn’t feel quite so bad about myself after that, although the hangover continued to somewhat cloud things for the rest of the day.
The end, by me.